Are you worried about how your family members might react if you include them in your stories? 

(YOU ANSWERED YES—SCROLL TO READ MORE.)

 

☑️ …YOU ANSWERED YES

You are in good company. Memoirists and life story writers have been wrestling with this notion forever.

On the one hand, as Anne Lamott flippantly writes, “You own everything that happened to you. Tell your stories. If people wanted you to write warmly about them, they should have behaved better.”

On the other hand, just because family members happened to bump up against your life, how fair is it to include them in your stories—especially if they may feel hurt or betrayed?

If you'd like to explore, here's an interesting article that hits on a variety of viewpoints.

>> Now, go ahead: Write, and write freely: You own your story, and you are writing from your perspective. You can always go back and edit later ❤️️❤️️❤️️