Life Story Links: November 4, 2025

“To write memoir is to accumulate the facts and then write past them. It is to search through the briefcase of tattered documents because there is poetry in a passport stamp.”
—Beth Kephart

vintage postcard with illustration of fisherman by a winding stream postmarked 1906 — Vintage postcard depicting an illustration of a fisherman by a winding stream, postmarked 1906, from the personal ephemera collection of Dawn Roode.

Writing our lives

THERAPISTS, WRITING, FICTION…
The assumed therapeutic value of writing has become such a trope in recent decades that “trauma fiction” and “the trauma memoir” have become their own genres. Gabriel Urza on when telling your own story get in the way of processing trauma.

MORE THAN A BIO
Last week I shared a writing prompt I discovered in an unexpected place—it’s simple (not easy…there’s a difference!), provocative, and versatile, and I’ve got tips for how to use it in autobiographical writing, too.

HER AI PARTNER…
“I didn’t feel like my creativity was being replaced—I felt like it was being met.” Heather Gemmen Wilson on “the future of creative partnership with AI. Not replacement. Not shortcut. But invitation.”

…AND, A LESS OPTIMISTIC VIEW OF AI
“When I...began writing my memoir-in-essays, I felt the strength of my own mind, the experiences that made me weak bubbling through my fingertips onto the keys.” Could AI prpvide her with something similar?

INSIDE THE CRAFT
The son of a southern preacher, Michael E. Long says, “I learned how to write, and how words should go together, by listening to the music of my father's voice.” Veteran ghostwriter Daniel Paisner talks shop with Mike in a recent episode of As Told To:

Mining the past for gold

ERODED BY TIME, INDELIBLE JUST THE SAME
Lea Ypi goes on a quest to find the truth behind her grandmother’s smile: “Indignity is a memoir, biography and imagined history prompted by a viral family photograph.”

CLEARING THE FAMILY HOME
“Under the stuff I can’t throw out is the stuff my parents couldn’t throw out.” Would saying goodbye to every last newspaper clipping, button, and book her parents had saved over decades help writer Anne Enright mourn?

THE STORIES WE LIVE, THE STORIES WE TELL
“Nonfiction is, at its core, about how one chooses to live and observe life.” Julian Brave NoiseCat explores the relationship between documentary filmmaking and memoir.

Starry stories

ALMOST FAMOUS
In his new memoir, Uncool, Cameron Crowe gives readers a front-row ticket to the ’70s and, as one review says, delivers “deliciously readable tales.” Watch below as he shares some artifacts from his life, and click here for a delightful interplay between Crowe and Anderson Cooper (including a mutual appreciation of the power of silence during an interview).

A LIFE REFLECTED IN VIDEO
John Candy: I Like Me “documents the actor’s on- and off-camera existence, featuring never-before-seen home videos, intimate access to his family, and candid recollections from collaborators to paint a bigger picture of one of the brightest stars of the ’70s, ’80s and ’90s.”